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Happy Mother’s Day momma! We hope you have a great day.
Anna says:
Thank you mommy for all that you do for me. Thank you for playing with me, especially princesses. Thank you for letting me watch Diego and Dora and Ariel videos, and for helping me with my stretches.
Thanks for taking me to ride Doodle the horse, and to visit Susan and Lisa, and my friends at preschool and daycare (except that one boy I don’t like). Thank you for my baby brother — he’s not so bad even though I wish he was a sister. Thank you for taking me to Old McDonald’s and making me smoothies and for making sure the Big Bad Wolf doesn’t get me. Thank you for playing raincloud and for singing songs and reading books to me. And for giving me just one more hug every night. And a kiss. And a hug.
I love you momma. You are a very good momma.
Noah says:
Smile! SMILE! Gaaaaarrrr. Aggle, flaggle klabble. Snurp. Rumpy flappy. Gaaaaaa, brrrrrrrr. SMILE! SMILE!
(Momma! I love you momma! Thank you for boobies! And snuggles. And holding me when I’m tired. And boobies! Momma! Love! Love!)
Neal says:
What she said. And he said.
Thank you for being so damned amazing, hon. Thanks for keeping this ship afloat, for keeping the kids happy, putting up with me, and somehow managing not to go crazy(er) from all the stress and lack of sleep. I really don’t know how you do it.
You are an amazing momma. And we love you so very, very, very much!
May 10th, 2009
We’ve been a little busy lately and have failed to post some of what’s been going on! Anna is now a big 3 year old, and has wasted no time in her desire to be a “big kid.” She wants to do everything that the “big kids” are doing. Today Neal took her sledding for the first time on a pretty big hill near our house. She did great sledding by herself and wanted to sled down the big hill just like the “big kids” were doing, which necessitated her climbing up that huge hill many times! Neal was really proud of her, and I’m sad that I missed it!!
Speaking of other big kids…we have a rather large baby in our house. Noah had his 2 month appointment a couple of weeks ago. The little man tipped the scales at 13 lbs (97+th percentile) and measured 23.5 inches in length (95th percentile)! What can we say…we have large children! Other than his size, he is healthy and doing well. As Neal posted recently, Noah has started smiling and talking a lot. He’s really such a happy baby. Anna’s 3 year appointment saw her measuring at 39 inches tall (95th percentile) and 33.5 lbs (75th percentile). She’s fallen off her growth curve a little in weight, but she had been sick the week prior to her appointment. We aren’t terribly concerned about it and neither is the doctor.
March was a very busy month for us. We did another round of constraint therapy with Anna down at Children’s Hospital. Anna was so cooperative with it all, and gained quite a bit of strength in her left hand/arm during this round. At about the same time, she transitioned from early intervention therapy services to therapy through the school district. She started district-based preschool the Tuesday after her birthday, and seems to like it. I guess I should say we *think* she likes it, but honestly she doesn’t like to talk too much about it, which makes Neal and me a little nervous. We’re also not sure how much “therapy” time she’s receiving and what the level of quality is. The other day I asked her if she’d seen one of her therapists that day, and Anna told me that she had and that they watched a movie. Huh? What’s the therapeutic value of a movie? Having been so incredibly hands-on during Anna’s therapy sessions in the past, not knowing what’s going on while she’s having therapy at school is more than a little frustrating for me. I’m thankful we are able to augment her district-based therapy services with private OT and PT sessions.
This week marks the end of my maternity leave. I’ve got mixed feelings about it. On the one hand, I will very much miss my shadow that’s been with me 24-7 for the last 11 weeks. On the other hand, I’ve not had a moment to myself in 11 weeks, so work will be somewhat liberating. I feel less angst about leaving Noah at daycare than I did when I left Anna. Noah will be attending the same daycare as Anna, so the surroundings are familiar to us. We know the caregivers in the baby room (they took care of Anna when she was wee), and have a very good relationship with the center’s director. Still, it’s hard to leave your baby with others because no one can care for him like us. I hope his first day is not too stressful – I imagine mine will be.
March 30th, 2009
Just a quick note to let folks know I just posted some new photos on the Flickr site, including a short movie of Mr. Noah smiling!
Oh, and Anna’s been doing just great with her new cast (which is very, very pink!). Seriously. We’re all amazed at her positive attitude and she’s getting some really good therapy done. Her new therapist said that the cast might just make it all simpler for her, in a way, by removing the constant conflict in her mind about which hand to use for each and every task.
March 7th, 2009
So it has been awhile since we last posted. Pretty much everyone in the house has been sick! Anna had a suspected case of pneumonia and Neal, Noah and I have had colds. We’ve been using hand sanitizer like crazy, but I’m not sure how effective it is when the preschooler is running around sneezing and coughing on everyone and everything. Anna has yet another cold that has turned her into a sloppy, runny-nosed, weepy-eyed monster. I feel so badly for her, but the whining does grate on the nerves after awhile. She’s so generously passed this most recent cold on to her father, who is battling it with copious amounts of vitamin c and coldeeze lozenges.
We took Noah in to the doctor shortly after his 5-week milestone to make sure that his cold hadn’t turned into something more serious (namely, pneumonia). He weighed in at 11 lbs. 13 oz! Looking at him, it is hard to believe he is only 7 weeks old. He’s now wearing some 3-6 month clothing! Anyway, his cold hadn’t turned into anything more serious, but it certainly has proved to be long-lived. He still has a stuffy nose 2 weeks later!
We’re starting another round of intensive constraint therapy for Anna this week. Starting today we’ll be wearing a cast on her right arm to encourage her to use her left. I know it sounds strange to say it, but we are actually looking forward to this session, as Anna’s been more and more stubborn about using her left hand. We think she is in need of a “cognitive reset” that the casting seems to provide. Unfortunately, she’ll be casted on her birthday again this year (we were in Alabama last year at this time).
Speaking of birthdays, Anna will be 3 this month! It is so hard for me to believe that 3 years have passed since she was born. Lately we’ve been looking at lots of pictures and videos of when Anna was Noah’s age (Anna’s been curious about what she was like when she was a baby), and that has been a true walk down memory lane. With her third birthday comes the end of our early intervention home therapy services. She’ll be receiving therapy through the school district now, and starts at our neighborhood preschool two days after her birthday. We’re hoping that she fits in there and enjoys her two mornings per week.
Other than those developments, things are pretty “normal” (if you call having zero control and limited sleep “normal”). We’re learned a few things:
- You can sleep just about anywhere, and do so on a near nightly basis.
- You can sleep through just about anything if you are tired enough.
- You cannot please everyone all the time, so please the one that is screaming the loudest first.
- Bouncy seats, swings, and anything else that keep the baby quiet and sleeping are gifts from God.
- Changing diapers doesn’t seem nearly as critical and urgent for the second child as it did for the first.
We hope to post some pictures and videos in the near future. Noah is actually smiling now, which is such a joy to see.
March 4th, 2009
It’s really good to be home. Per expectations, the doctor gave Tara and Noah their final checkup and cleared us all to go home by mid-morning. By lunchtime we were back at home, where Granny and Anna had just finished making “Welcome home!” signs for Noah and “pinkalicious” cupcakes for the “big sister party” we’d planned for Ms. Rose.
Everyone’s doing well. Noah’s still spending the vast majority of his time sleeping (as is only right and good!). Anna is as enthusiastic about her baby brother as you could expect an almost-three-year-old to be (“he’s a real baby!”). Max greeted the newcomer with reasonable interest and has spent most of the afternoon upstairs hanging out with all of us (compare to Anna’s arrival, when he hid in the basement for about a week). And Granny’s been a superstar, handling most of the cooking and cleaning.
We’re off to bed soon. We’ll see how our first night all together goes — here’s hoping we manage to get a little more sleep than we did at the hospital.
But it’s good to be home.
Note: I just posted the day’s photos on our Flickr site, including a pretty cool video of Anna singing a rousing rendition of “baa baa black sheep, havin’ you da wolf” for her baby brother.
January 17th, 2009
Anna met her little brother today. She seemed very proud about her new status as big sister, happily presenting wee Noah with his first stuffed animal (a black bear she’s named “Fred”).
We’ve posted a bunch of photos on the Flickr site, so take a look.
It’s been a long day. Noah’s doing great — sleeping mostly, but also doing a generally good job of breast feeding. We’ve had lots of family in the room today visiting, which made for a busy day. (Frankly, I’m exhausted).
Very probably heading home tomorrow, which Ms. Anna is extremely excited about. She’s missing her momma, and wants to have her baby brother home “right now”.
Off to try and catch a few winks now. Thanks to everyone for the well wishes!
January 16th, 2009
Noah Jackson Enssle was born today at 4:45PM, weighing in at 9 lbs. and 3 oz., and 21.3 inches long.
Mother and baby are doing great!
Welcome to our family, little man!
We all love you very much.
January 15th, 2009
We’re at the hospital now! Tara called me around 11:00AM this morning saying she’d gone into labor and was having her sister Josie drive her to the hospital. I dashed out of the office, into the car, and made it to the hospital in about 5 minutes (it’s a 12 minute drive).
Everything’s going well, but now it’s just a waiting game. Tara’s having regular contractions, but no real action so far.
We’ll try to keep everyone updated!
January 15th, 2009
Anna’s jumping!
It ain’t no long jump, and it ain’t no high jump, but both feet leave the ground simultaneously. We’re extremely excited. Jumping has been a major goal for all of us for at least the past six months, and it’s great to see her doing so well in the gross motor realm.
Heck, the girl’s doing great generally. The twos are terrible and wonderful all at the same time. Sure, lots of boundary-testing, plenty of wailing and whining when she doesn’t think she’s getting her way, but most of the time she’s a total charmer. Talking up a storm, with an ever-increasing vocabulary, longer and longer sentences, and she’s discovered the power of “why?”. She’s as social as ever, except when she announces she “wants to be shy”, which I never complain too much about because it usually means she “hides”, snuggly-fashion, in Daddy’s arms for the first 10 minutes until she warms up to a new social situation.
The next big deal is trying to get her to actually run, but I’d be willing to bet there’s some correlation between developing enough confidence to let both feet leave the ground in a jump and moving faster than just a quick walk.
Meanwhile: We’re both doing well, just trying to keep up with it all.
September 12th, 2008
Yes, we’re pregnant! Sorry if this is the first you’re hearing about it, but it’s been a crazy summer, okay? We know it’s a boy, due sometime in late January. It’s not surprising, but this pregnancy has been flying by. (Easy for me to say, no? But Tara’s fortunately over the worst of the nausea by this point). The panel’s green, all signs are good, and we’re starting to try and come up with names. For his part, the little guy is apparently pretty busy and moves around in the hottub a lot more than Ms. Anna did. People tell us that’s a boy thing?
Anna’s starting to get a little excited about being a big sister. She’s very excited to meet her new baby sister — er, brother (she alternates between the two…), but also clearly a little confused by the whole affair. Here’s to hoping she’ll treat her little brother better than she’s been treating poor Max of late (“No Max!” is a common refrain).
September 12th, 2008
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